I have a set rule. For anything from relationships to friendships to colleagues to anyone and anything,I get the fog cleared.

If you like me it’s fine,don’t like me it’s again fine (I don’t hate people for not liking me) but make it clear. Human mind hates only one thing and that is uncertainty.

I get my concepts clear about them, by one way or another. Once they are done, I move on pretty quickly. I don’t (never) follow-up anybody who seems not interested in me beyond a point. Its their decision,I respect that but then it’s all over.

There are millions of people out there who can love you for what you are. Go to them instead of lingering with people who are not at right wavelength from you.

People ignore for following reasons

  1. They value you too little (needy,clingy etc.)
  2. They value you too much and want to make up for their insecurity by making you feel their importance.

In both the cases it’s not worth it. First is ego play and second is mind game, and believe me in long run both are too boring.

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