Nudity has different aspects.For some it is vulgar or sexual.For some it is spiritual. To me nudity is immensely spiritual.Human body (of both sexes) is amalgamation of infinite contours and emotions.It reacts to touch, view and expresses itself.

But nudity has types.One is physical nudity which is indeed pleasing to our outer senses.Other is spiritual nudity which is more pensive than physical nudity.You can be nude physically in front of any one but might not be mentally nude.Mental nudeness is much more deeper.We look beyond physical body.Our thoughts unite, our spirits conjure,our senses interact. Spiritual nudity means that you need not speak any bit, just sit around with each other, feel the unknown, unsung music of life.

When you are nude in all senses, i.e. physically, spiritually,psychologically,mentally , only then the two people can experience real enlightenment and extreme pleasure. Its beyond explanation and beyond comprehension.

Enlightenment is orgasm of your soul.Its after effects last for several hours may be weeks. It is like escalating the orgasm but never fulfilling it and arousing more.People misunderstand enlightenment as ‘renouncement’ and sainthood.In fact enlightenment is sex of souls.It is not physical sex (although it is) only, it reaches to your soul, your inner body and every thing you have.It is not fast but slow,damn slow.It does not release tension but people who are already happy are involved in it.If you are already happy and ecstatic and do sex for pleasure only and not to release sexual urge or mental tension, it becomes enlightenment.

In tantric sex som times people do not penetrate and still get all the orgasm.Touch is the primer in tantric sex.Touch, massage, gentle kisses, all move in conjunction to allow you to reach unknown states of pleasure.Normal sex is too fast.Just like a hungry person eating food.Tantric sex is like a desert which a contended person enjoys.His hunger is already satiated.

Sex is for unhappy, tantric sex is for already happy seeking spiritual sex and not physical.There are no rules about any thing .It just goes with the flow.You may penetrate, you may not do it.It is primarily a massage technique aimed to provide pleasure to every cell in your body and not just your genitals.No performance pressure is there as we go with the flow.Copulation is also done it necessary.We do not crave for it but flow for it.

We just go with the flow with no hurry.We are aiming for any act.We are just moving like a river.We go wherever river takes us. No agendas, no rules, no decorum to be maintained.

Its natural, free flowing and really what sex should be and not the impulsive outbreak of hormones rushing down under you to get a release as soon as possible.You don’t seek any release (as no agenda even to copulate is predefined),but you flow with the ease in mind that our purpose is to seek enlightenment of soul and not pleasure on body.

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Hemant Pandey
Hemant lives in Mumbai (India),writes on Quora (2600 followers, 2.8 million views).Published 5 books on Amazon Kindle. Entrepreneur, Writer, Mathematician, Professor.