You always remain in touch with your ‘love’. Love is a silent back ground music. But to reach that stage, you got be connected once in a while via social media.

I again say and people might laugh, but hand written love letters beat everything in getting the real connection. Text, mail, WA, FB,Insta etc. are instant connection tools but once in a while, may be once a month, get in touch with her via snail mail. Girls love to ruminate and they often reread the same mail, same message many , many times, and tend to draw different conclusions each time!

A letter is a thought process while message is instant reaction. We react on a message but respond in a letter. Do incorporate letters in your ‘love affair’.

Secondly, pay attention to what science says about this. It takes around 21 days to make and break habits. Please avoid (From both sides) any interval greater than 21 days , with out commuinication.

90 days changes nature. Thus 90 days is a break up sign. 6 months is the time for official divorce!

A simple ‘hi’ can bring back all the memories. But if the memories are over written by some one else in this phase, then….

Whatever , communication is assurance.


Hemant Pandey
Hemant lives in Mumbai (India),writes on Quora (2600 followers, 2.8 million views).Published 5 books on Amazon Kindle. Entrepreneur, Writer, Mathematician, Professor.