Love is chemicals in action.

Sex or kisses releases feel good hormone serotonin, pleasure hormone dopamine and bonding hormone oxytocin into our mind.Leaving the chemicals behind, let’s talk about chemistry,the biochemistry.

We all have our personal space and also personal boundaries.Forget about old school buddies, have you ever allowed any stranger to touch you ? Isn’t is strange that a gentle tap on your hand by your school buddy (opposite sex) means nothing (not even holding hands etc.).

But would you allow you very good friend to kiss you on your lips,passionately ? No.

Some privileges are exclusive. Your touch is also exclusive (you may not feel so but in case of a gentle touch by an stranger, is difficult to let go). We allow only those people to touch us exclusively whom we trust and love in some cases.

Now in the era of social media when common hand holding and tap on arms or even hugging is social norm and the new normal,how can your lover’s mind distinguish between friend’s vs lover ?

Hence a exclusive act is often required,some thing which need special privileges as well as permissions or affirmations. If he was shy you must have gone for it.In other case it was not love at the first place.

I am not talking about kiss or copulation but some thing out of exclusive out of social settings.In some regions even hand holding is not allowed,in that case it was a bit different. Again science says that maximum sensory neurons are in the lip region of both genders (of all visible body parts).

A kiss is a must.