It is in the pscychology of women to be indirect.While I have been proposed quite a few times in my life but may be due to the fact that I make it pretty clear to them,through various channels that I love them.

  • Women are conditioned from their tender age to be indirect and discreet.People often mistake a girls smile for an invitation and the likes.
  • They do talk directly if they really like you and trust you.
  • Girls live in imagination and fantasy and hence are often confused with man’s ‘too direct’ approach.Girls need a environment, proper communication and cushioning.To you it might be ‘I love you’…but to them its a dream, a song sequence, bunch of feelings.
  • A simple ILU means a song to them!.Being indirect is also their guard.



Hemant Pandey
Hemant lives in Mumbai (India),writes on Quora (2600 followers, 2.8 million views).Published 5 books on Amazon Kindle. Entrepreneur, Writer, Mathematician, Professor.