Have you heard ‘nice guys finish last ‘. Same analogy may be applied. A guy will dump a girl if

  • She is too orthodox and pretends to be all nice all the time.
  • Is too complex in her thinking.Never initiates any communication ,as she is either shy or has ego issues or whatever . Love is about simplifying lives and not complicating.
  • She is very defiant in her thinking. Is very much adamant to forgive you for any of your mistakes. Being nice is not same as being adamant.
  • She has a lot of issues with physical part of relationships. Is too conscious about even a mild touch.
  • She doesn’t have a grey shade in her personality!. Yes people are natural and its okay to swear bad words at times, being comfortable with non veg jokes or whatever . Niceness (Too much niceness  ) is always a mask. Same as nice guys.
  • Every one likes good girls. But these kind of issues needs to be addressed. Once the outer personality of any girl (Call it looks, charms) become obvious, these complexities must also go. You have to become more natural and not more nice!

Given a beer and a bisleri, any guy will choose beer, even after fully knowing all the ill effects. But if the plain bisleri can become a little salty and spicy just by adding a simple lime juice, nothing and not even a champagne beats her!

I think you get the point. You don’t need to become witchy but just a bit more open, open to change.

My girlfriend dumped me. I am hear-broken. What to do?