It is same as being an asset or a liability.

  • Your girl is a support for you or just a ego centric mind game playing control freak.
  • Is she sympathetic towards you or more interested in winning the power game.
  • Do you focus on your core job more after the relationship or focus more on caressing your girl!
  • Do you feel assured because of her of insecure.
  • Yes it’s all between loving and winning. Girls are known to play mind games, power traps (inbuilt in them) and showing unnecessary tantrums. Its okay for a while and may add a bit of spice to the relationship but in the long run it weakens you and not softens you.

Love softens but mind games weakens.

It is same as a storm vs mild soothing breeze. Both are air in action but quality, quantity and effect are entirely different.
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