We all have our share of betrayal and bad life experiences. We all have high shields for our inner self. You are good at heart, someone you love is also good at heart but still we are too cautious now a days.

Yes. Very much. But to get that it is quite difficult.

Why ?

  • The conscious guards are too high : We all have our share of betrayal and bad life experiences. We all have high shields for our inner self. You are good at heart, someone you love is also good at heart but still we are too cautious now a days. Even the most coveted lovers, the element of distrust is too high. We are too judgemental.
  • Deep connections are missing : Due to outbreak of unprecedented social media exposure and availability of too many options have created an illusion of choices. Options never equal

    Love with strings of convenience and comfort attached is what we call the modern relationship.

     choice but our greedy mind is not ready to accept.We want more and more options. It takes time to fall in love and out of love. We are too short focused. We want every thing noodle quick. hence we are left with relationships and not love. Love with strings of convenience and comfort attached is what we call modern relationship. As they say ‘Dew drops never quench your thirst’.

Rule of thumb : For any prospective lovers, make them wait for six months. If they can’t wait for you for six months (or any right length of time) for you, how can they suppose to last for whole life.

Why is it that the one we love hurts us so much?

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Hemant Pandey
Hemant lives in Mumbai (India),writes on Quora (2600 followers, 2.8 million views).Published 5 books on Amazon Kindle. Entrepreneur, Writer, Mathematician, Professor.