Love is in the moments.

  • Love happens in a certain special moment, when some one starts liking you. It is every thing and their is no formula for that. Even if their are methods to seduce a girl or a boy, they are hollow. Why ? They will never give you satisfaction but only a boost to your ego! One ego boost , then another and the another…cycle never ends!

In general girls like chivalry i.e. manners and behavior. How you talk, behave and groom.

  • According to the halo effect, people like only one dominating quality of yours. It can be your intelligence, looks, soft skills, knowledge, money, name, fame power or whatever depending on the liking of the concerned person. After that every other bad quality is disregarded.

In general girls are impressed by intelligence, chivalry, grooming, physical aspects alike good physique (Not monsters), benevolence, ability to provide, bravery, humor (Not in exact order).

  • For boys, apart from looks, good nature, caring, innocence (Highly valued), faithfulness, good listener, empathy, honesty (Highly valued) etc. (Again not in same order). Integrity of girls is also most sought now days, more than looks!
  • The point to consider is that a girl can be impressed by a boy or vice versa for any one quality or any one moment. You can’t possible create that moment knowingly. You can however create a perception (Genuine, remember sixth sense) and let them choose out of that.

There are methods to make a girl fall in love but you must love that girl for that. This is only a vehicle. If you don’t really love, you will get bored and essentially wasting your energy as physical pleasures are momentarily and will drain you further in a never ending quest.

No pick up artist and I mean no one is fully satisfied till date with sex only.

Only love fulfills, only sex drains.

How to trust my love?


Hemant Pandey
Hemant lives in Mumbai (India),writes on Quora (2600 followers, 2.8 million views).Published 5 books on Amazon Kindle. Entrepreneur, Writer, Mathematician, Professor.