Men cheat only for two reasons.

  • You are too close and needy.
  • You are too distant and aloof.

Maintain a balance and keep the right tension. If you are always digging into his life, he will feel suffocated. If you are too aloof, he will get insecure.

Insecurity is more vulnerable than suffocation though. If you want that your boyfriend do not fall into some one’s else lap for validation, just keep the right tension. Love is strange . It comes without noise and goes without noise!

My girlfriend isn’t replying since a week. What do I make of this?


Hemant Pandey
Hemant lives in Mumbai (India),writes on Quora (2600 followers, 2.8 million views).Published 5 books on Amazon Kindle. Entrepreneur, Writer, Mathematician, Professor.