I don’t know about love, but the initial connection must be synchronized.Love is too complex to be defined in a limited arena. Examples are there where one person loves other don’t, then other person starts loving but the former has no spark left. Sometimes they strike back in time some times timings mismatch.[pullquote]Every love story is UNIQUE and some are WEIRD. But the initial connection is must.We must feel a tickle in our hearts and in our minds in few initial meetings. Its the charging point.If you can have some spark in the beginning, then it may convert into fire later.[/pullquote]
Every love story is UNIQUE and some are WEIRD. But the initial connection is must.We must feel a tickle in our hearts and in our minds in few initial meetings. Its the charging point.If you can have some spark in the beginning, then it may convert into fire later.
With me sometimes I fell in love instantly while the other person took some time.In other cases reverse happened. With my true love story(Described multiple times before), she fell in love with me while I was thinking that she is just another ‘kiddo’ on the block. I thought that ‘Does she even know meaning of love or it is just lust or infatuation or just attraction ?'[pullquote]Later with her gestures and body language I got the idea that boy its true love and love of the purest kind. I cannot describe the devotion of that girl (That Bengali Damsel about whom I wrote about many times before). I was her god and there were no other even in her thoughts. She was like ‘Meera’ to lord ‘Krishna’ (Later became Radha).[/pullquote]
Later with her gestures and body language I got the idea that boy its true love and love of the purest kind. I cannot describe the devotion of that girl (That Bengali Damsel about whom I wrote about many times before). I was her god and there were no other even in her thoughts. She was like ‘Meera’ to lord ‘Krishna’ (Later became Radha).
Okay let me prove it!
We never met. Hence to confirm my love to her and also to test her (I test my love interest always as I devote my self totally), I planned a series of events. I used to take long walks in the evening and while returning back (some times as late as 11 PM), I used to sing a song for her. To get confirmation that she heard the song she used to make a distinct sound (Seems crazy!) which only can be heard from a small distance. Her room was in front of my house, opposite to the road.
This was going on for a while. She will reply to the song by playing some song in her house which can be heard across my house.To distinguish it from random songs, she used to play only one song or only one or two lines (Its getting crazier!). Now any body can think that this is ‘normal’. Right ?
I decided to test that whether she listens to my songs or its just a random sound from her house!
I decided to go long. Other day, I returned at 2 AM at night (Crazy!!). I sang only one line of this song.
dheere dheere pyar ki jo aag jal gayi…
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zzSxhtgm6Jg
I was expecting no sound or confirmation. Who wakes till 2 AM in the night when every time you hear your song at 11 PM latest. Also who in the world cares about songs from a random stranger passing through your window each night ?
Bang!! I heard a sound and also light of her room lit up just for one second!!
I was floored and still am!
Yes it looks crazy in the world of WA, FB,Instagram and noodle love, but have you ever read a love story as reminiscent as this even after 16 years![pullquote]Later with her gestures and body language I got the idea that boy its true love and love of the purest kind. I cannot describe the devotion of that girl (That Bengali Damsel about whom I wrote about many times before). I was her god and there were no other even in her thoughts. She was like ‘Meera’ to lord ‘Krishna’ (Later became Radha).[/pullquote]
Love is strange, cannot be defined and it is very very difficult to find some one who loves you as much as you love him or her. You get only one or may be two chances in your life when you get instant divine connection with someone.If you get one please don’t let it go by any means.
Test : If you have to think about your love then its not love.You can’t think whether you love some one.Its intuitive and comes from within.
Love is what you can’t stop thinking and not what you want to think!Listen to your gut feel and you will get your answer.Our minds are wrong but our intuition is never wrong.
[pullquote]Love is what you can’t stop thinking and not what you want to think!Listen to your gut feel and you will get your answer.Our minds are wrong but our intuition is never wrong.[/pullquote]
Girls are blessed with it.
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