There are only two personality traits. Strong and weak. Rest are just subsets.

Everyone likes strong person.A strong man is faithful, he is trustworthy,he is having as strong character etc.

You are desperate because you want to have them and not the vice versa!

Let me tell you the anatomy of your life.

You meet a pretty girl. You look at her. She looks you for a while (curiosity). You look more,kind of follow her,try to talk and what not. You act like needy puppy!

[pullquote]Be strong.Its okay to be appreciative but you cannot fall in love with every body. Since they start to reject you, you become desperate! (Forbidden fruit effect). Make yourself more worthy. Work out, gain knowledge,dress well, so girls look at you and you just don’t look at them and pass by![/pullquote]

Be strong.Its okay to be appreciative but you cannot fall in love with every body. Since they start to reject you, you become desperate! (Forbidden fruit effect). Make yourself more worthy. Work out, gain knowledge,dress well, so girls look at you and you just don’t look at them and pass by!

It happens only when you stop to look at them like creepy. You are worthy but you are quoting yourself too low!

Stop looking for a week and you shall find an ‘inward’ energy. Every body following you!. If you always follow, no one shall follow you.Give        them space to fall. Don’t give them confidence but get confidence.

via I am 25yo boy, I’ve never been in a relationship, As days goes I am getting more desperate, I see a pretty girl I fall in love.How to control myself?