True love has phases.

  • Like a good parent our conscious mind protects our tender heart. It goes on protecting till the time it is fully satisfied.
  • Hence mind games,drama etc. will be there. But as love deepens and mind is satisfied, our heart begins to open and then real love starts.
  • It depends from couple to couple, how much time this process might take

How do I stop blaming my defects and inadequacies for which my girlfriend rejected me?