Depends on perspective.
Problem with me is that 90% of my friends are females and hence I can’t judge whether I am cool or not. I was always a ladies man and I still can’t figure it out, why?
I am bit haughty, kind of intellectual, touchy, unfaithful (in the sense of flirting with many girls at any given point of time). All present or past women in my life are aware of this shortcoming of mine.
About my friends, I still have quite a few male friends, but most of them don’t know about real me and my nature.