She is a perfect seducer. You know what is seduction in one word, its distraction.
- They distract you from your usual self and thinking patterns. They do things which are very nice sometimes (For no apparent reasons) and very bad some times (Again for no apparent reasons).
- They change their patterns with you.Play a game of presence and absence with you. They create desperation in you and later on drift away.
- If you start drifting away, they are back with all love and affection!
- If this is the pattern you are observing, then only way to deal with this is to create your own patterns. Some times laugh at her, other times sympathize. Some times care and other times don’t.
Repeat and she will be all right.