How will you punish your girlfriend if she’s cheating on you?

How should you respond when someone you love cheats? This personal reflection argues for self-respect, walking away without revenge, and focusing on personal growth.
A symbolic journey from heartbreak to self-respect, showing a person walking away from betrayal toward personal growth and a hopeful future.

I shall NOT punish but thank her!

  • I devote my self totally in love. By cheating she saved my countless hours of effort and future effort.

    I love my self and value myself too high.If she cheats means ‘she has devalued me ?’. I shall improve my value so much that nobody dares to cheat me.

I love my self and value myself too high.If she cheats means ‘she has devalued me ?’. I shall improve my value so much that nobody dares to cheat me.

  • Let me tell you a different incident. A close friend of mine cheated me for mere 5000/- INR. I was not at all angry with him (I did cut all communications with him till date.He is invisible to me. I employ a method of mental rewiring[1] in which I totally erase person’s memory from my brain. I may not recognize him now). I was only angry for the fact that I valued less than 5000/- bucks for him!!

    My greatest punishment is ‘me leaving her’. I value myself above all. If I don’t value me, why should you or anybody else ?

My greatest punishment is ‘me leaving her’. I value myself above all. If I don’t value me, why should you or anybody else ?

PS : No body cheats me or have done so till now as far as girls are concerned.I read it in their gestures. I am the first one to leave. But that too never happened!!

PS2 : Best reaction is no reaction. I don’t think about whom who don’t care about my pain and my feelings. Love is reciprocal.

Footnotes

[1] This Nifty Infographic Is a Great Introduction to Neuroplasticity and Cognitive Therapy

 

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