What is the saddest thing about you, and why?

I will refrain from writing logistics issues and childhood abuses. I want to write about something based on human psyche.

Sometimes it happens that you completely understand someone you know (you may love them). Due to one or many misunderstandings or whatever your relationship might have been spoiled. You totally understand their point of view and want to help them, reach out to them.

But you can’t do so.

Reason is our absurd illogical mind. You know they love you (still love you). You know things can be fine but still you know that if you reach out to them their ego will not consider it as your understanding but weakness.

How heart wrenching it can be for an empath that he knows the problem, he knows the solution but still can’t help!

This happens many times after break up. Any one mature and understanding partner knows what’s going on. He may want to reunite. But this illogical mind starts to play games. Ego validation comes into foray. They start to think that you are weak now, needy and creepy.

I really hate the mind and its flaws.

Mind O mind , you never fail to amuse me.

Be Happy, Be Good.