You career is far more important than love.
No girl likes a passionless man. Girls like passion and they never like the fact that you made them their passion.
Love is a part of life and not heart of life. More you focus on passion, more desirable you become. She already have many useless passionless followers. A mans job is to make this world better and not follow any girls aimlessly!
Girls love a man with a passion, a goal and not a needy follower. Be a man.