Let me give you a different perspective. Men are not like that as you believe them to be. Ever wondered that for every girl there are 10X more lovers, followers and admirers. How is that possible?

The reason is polygamous nature of men.

A boy do not only exclusively follow you.

Besides you he has many other part time jobs. Men court multiple women as potential love partners. The overlapping creates the illusion of choice for girls but it’s just the reality of options for men.

Yes there are few guys who are head over heels over you but only because they don’t have access to more options. A boy gets most attracted to the woman who gets attracted to him. Love is indeed reciprocal. Every unemployed person apply for every job available and hence the delusion is overrated.

Don’t worry, be happy.