Female (Covert) psychology
I was young , enthusiastic and I wanted love. I had few affairs but I wanted more. The thrill was just too much. I started researching on “how to woo a girl”. I was a die hard romantic but one failed unrequited (mutual) love story changed my out look. What I couldn’t understand that it was destiny and no one’s fault.
[pullquote]A true lover is a bad player. Once I figured out the ways to attract any girl, I was immensely bored by relationships! I helped many of my friends in the process to get their dream girl or so called out of the league girl.[/pullquote]I became a charmer play boy. Charming girls (innocent) and leaving them in lurch was my passion in my youth (Which I deeply regret). I was not interested in them sexually since to me sex is spiritual union and not just physical union.Yes I tried sex with few of them but was utterly bored by ‘only sex’ pleasure. I needed a deeper connection, real love as I was missing it with my only true love (a Bengali damsel).I tried with many girls. Beautiful, simple,normal and so on… but that spark was always missing. To tell you the intensity , can you believe that I never slept for 39 days in a row for that girl!
A true lover is a bad player. Once I figured out the ways to attract any girl, I was immensely bored by relationships! I helped many of my friends in the process to get their dream girl or so called out of the league girl.
[pullquote]Even though I have written a book on women’s psychology and writing one more, I want to add even at my own commercial disinterest that please don’t read my book or any such literature if your love life is smooth. Its only for people who couldn’t find love elsewhere. [/pullquote]The bad part was that I was never able to become natural afterwards. I am extremist…either all natural or all player…When ever I fell in love after that, I always wondered that is it real or mere my mechanical tricks which are attracting that girl towards me. Its almost impossible to make yourself all natural once you learn mind games. Can you forget alphabets once you learn them ?I want real love and not love gained by tricks since I already experimented with that long back with great success. To unlearn mind games is a difficult detox.
Even though I have written a book on women’s psychology and writing one more, I want to add even at my own commercial disinterest that please don’t read my book or any such literature if your love life is smooth. Its only for people who couldn’t find love elsewhere. Also burn that book or delete it once you get your love.
Real love is enlightenment, a permanent state of mind whereas, mind games are a shot of LSD, they are quick but the effects are short living and the high doesn’t stay long.
PS : I really loved you.
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