6 things which only men face in their life

Not throughout the life but most of the life for most of the men.

  1. Emotional confusion : Men think differently than women.
    1. We don’t have event logs and are quite cool. Women are just opposite. They keep track of everything you said ever to them and always correlate your statements in context of ‘what you said that day ?’.
    2. We are playful and cool while women are impossible![pullquote]Your expression of love with women is dependent on circumstances and you log of statement for last month or so.[/pullquote]
    3. Men are direct while women are always metaphorical. They speak through body, gestures,words and that too in indirect tone. We have hard time decoding this all. A simple ‘I love you’ can mean different to a women depending on occasion. It may mean ‘He wants a kiss or sex ?’ or ‘ ‘He must not be coming to the date ?’ or ‘ He must have done something wrong’ . Your expression of love with women is dependent on circumstances and you log of statement for last month or so.
    4. Men usually live in the moment while Women ruminate on thoughts and constantly change their opinions on your behaviour and statement.[pullquote] Every man do not run after every second girl and asks her out. It may not be lack of confidence but might be lack of tact.[/pullquote]
  2. Onus to ask out or propose : This dilemma had killed more love stories than anything else. Women don’t understand the simple fact that a seducer or pick up artist might find it quite easy to ask out because he has nothing to lose (You are just a case study or another short catch) and secondly he has ample practice! What women count as confidence might be just practice with a lot of women! Every man do not run after every second girl and asks her out. It may not be lack of confidence but might be lack of tact. A lady must at least make the task easier by giving more clear hints like occasional sexual touch or glance or some flirty lines etc. Women already talk in metaphors and in that indirect talk they are more indirect! Deeper the love, greater the fear and trepidation.
  3. Take responsibility for everything
    1. Relationship failed, man is responsible.
    2. Girl’s mistake, man is responsible.
    3. Break up in live in relationship, man is a rapist.
    4. Girl is a gold digger and leaves the man for another rich brat, man is impotent and is incapable!.
    5. Girl wants sex and man doesn’t, oops he is not a man.
    6. Man wants sex and girl doesn’t, ohh what a creepy pervert. You all are same, you want only one thing!
  4. Take care of everything : In a relationship 70% of time men text or arrange for dates or ask out or plan everything. Women are just princess. You book a cab, call the lady, arrange the date, buy the gift, take her out, drop her back,say good night via text, wish good morning next day and then ask for her judgement ‘ How was the date baby ?’ She might say ‘ Ummm.. kinda okay!’ Same thing after sex or kiss. They just sit and decide like a judge.
  5. Judged : This an open secret that wherever you go and whatever you do as a man, you are the first to be judged. World always support the lady. Want to help out a girl while she is falling by supporting her, beware you might need support afterwards! Every situation is conditional. You help, you might be a pervert, you don’t help, you might be not manly enough![pullquote]Problem with men is that they don’t easily open up even with best friends and girlfriends. Our pain is a private affair and this is most traumatic aspect of being a man.[/pullquote]
  6. Emotional trauma : Since men are not very expressive and find hard time converting emotions to words and vice versa, we always face a lot of emotional dogma. We are carefree and do not act unless its life and death situation. Thus most breakups are initiated and maintained by women because they are good at keeping records! All our emotions are hidden and deep down we do have a sensitive heart. Problem with men is that they don’t easily open up even with best friends and girlfriends. Our pain is a private affair and this is most traumatic aspect of being a man.

We are not testosterone buffed sex organs, we are also human.

  • Due to our overt sexual desires (mostly hormonal), we are always cursed.
  • More a man loves you, less sex he needs from you.
  • We need emotions and support, real love and do not always want to slip into your skirts. Every date is not for sex or kiss. Sometimes we just need love and care and want to be treated like normal vulnerable human beings.
  • If girls can really see what happens inside a man’s mind when he is emotional, all their misconceptions will wipe out. Men are not always ‘men will be men’ type. It is a grossly overstated stereotype.

I always advocate for deep true love because only then you can see the true nature of people and then you shall believe that this world is wonderful. I have seen all and I can vouch for that ‘ Nothing beats true love’.

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