I suggest you must leave him as soon as possible.
He must not be in any false sense of notions.Again your decision must be final.
I support the fact a woman might leave a nonperforming husband. It is natural and utilitarian. But you must accept this also.
- If your new partner finds a better looking sexy wife or girlfriend, you should allow him to leave you.
- If your husband wins a lottery of million dollars tomorrow, your decision must not change.
- Your decision must be based on your core values and must not change afterwards.
Whatever you wish from others, you must also grant the same to them.