Falling in love is not in your hands nor falling out of love.
Ever been in love, try falling out!
Never in love, try falling in!
Ghalib describes it best
इश्क पर ज़ोर नहीं है ये वो आतिश “ग़ालिब”
जो लगाये न लगे और बुझाये न बने
– मिर्ज़ा ग़ालिब
Love is not controllable…it is like a fire which cannot be started not ended at will!
Love is blind,deaf and dumb to some extent. More careful we are about NOT falling in love, more likely we are to fall!
We fall in love unprecedentedly when we are not looking for it. It happens and with time becomes obsession.
- You are NOT in true love with someone,if you are not thinking about them continuously, in the background.
- Your every task has them in background.
- You essentially live with them in your veins and breath.
Thus love is in principle an involuntary process.
You can’t choose whom to fall in love. More you stop to fall in love,deeper you fall. If you want to avoid, then don’t stop them, they will go on their own.