Contrary to the popular belief, there are no magic words to flirting.
- Flirting is 90% body language and confidence. An under confident person speaking the best pick up lines looks like a fool. While just ‘Hi I am Hemant, glad to see you’ said with confidence can do the magic.
- It’s not what you say but how you say. You are not giving university viva that everything must be perfect. You are just starting the conversation. Don’t over think.
- Flirting is just bantering with sexual hints. Girls like it when you are a bit direct. It shows confidence.
- Remember it’s a two way game. Women need men and men need women. They too crave companionship, love , relationships, good time and off course sex.
- Don’t over compliment. It must not look needy or phony. It should come naturally out of conversation and not look like fitted canned text.
- Don’t try to be funny or humorous. Girls are impressed by many factors, including personality, clothes, looks, status, knowledge, your calmness etc. More you try , more desperate you look, lesser your chances.
- Girls are equally nervous in any social setting. It’s only they are in passive social structure, they look more relaxed.
Best approach is when it never looks like a approach. Looks natural.
- You are a man and it’s quite natural to get attracted to girls and talk to them.
- Girls know this. They too want to interact with guys. They are as nervous as you are, at times more.
- More conscious you become, more difficult it gets.
- More you wait tougher it gets.
- Don’t think about rejection or acceptance this early.
- No one can reject you if you want to talk to them! Unless you are too creepy.
- Think connection and not sleeping with girls. Just think to talk to them for 2 minutes. Easier goal. In a month you will be quite good.