I have had better experiences in this regard.
- I usually never break up but break contact. My break ups are swift and light. No hard fighting, no harsh memories, no blaming, begging, extreme ego etc. I usually left people on decent note that in case they want to come back they are welcome. I believe in the adage that ‘Love must not kill friendship’.
- I have contacted quite a few of them in the past and always got better response. No hard feelings or anger. I cannot hate anyone whom I have loved once, no matter what happens. I want them to be happy and nothing else. But yes I do not pester them more often than not like a stalker if they are really not interested to keep contact or friendship. They are welcome to come as a friend if they want.
- I give my total devotion in love. When I leave anyone, I make sure I did my 100% best in the relationship. With no lingering guilt, I usually find my life afterwards easier.
- Love is hormones in nature. After seeing anyone whom you love donce might not evoke the same feelings again. Love is an intoxication. It has a shelf life. Sometimes when I look back at them (in person or in pictures), I find them quite ordinary. Sometimes I laugh at my stupidity that how could I fall in love with this person. Love makes people look (seem) more wonderful than they really are. Love is blind and lovers are often dumb.
I recently had a crush on News 18 anchor Archita Arya. Many People say she is just normal Delhi girl but my eyes refuse to accept! I don’t know when and how her innocent looking face bit me hard in heart!
Ho jata hai kaise pyaar, na jane koi…!!